|The 3 Foundational Keys to Soulmate Love|
The Right Information
Let me explain. You need to have the right information in the first place. You need information on the subject of Soulmate Love that is given to you from the perspective of a man and a woman in a long-term, lasting, Soulmate relationship. That way, you get both the masculine and feminine perspective- AND you know it really works! Did you know that there are Love Coaches out there who are SINGLE and have been for awhile? Hmmmmm. I would question the information coming from them- however well-meaning- because they are NOT WALKING THEIR TALK- they are not living the life that they say they can help you live!
Johnny and I co-create every lesson, every audio, every manual and book that we offer our students. When you learn from us, you are learning from a couple who consciously did the inner work to find each other- we didn’t just “get lucky” one day and meet each other. We were intentional in manifesting each other. Listen, Johnny has over 20 years experience in education and training. He’s created hundreds of classes and courses and understands that having the right information- the information that will ultimately lead you to your True Love- is CRUCIAL to helping you get what and who you want.
The Right Love Coach and Support
Anybody who ever was successful at anything more than average and mediocre achievements had a coach or a mentor of some kind who was there to guide, support and hold them accountable to doing the action steps necessary to get great results. It’s no different in achieving Soulmate Love.
You need a guide who has been there, done that- and who understands how to guide and direct you as you do the inner work necessary to find your Love.
Here’s another thing: you WILL encounter roadblocks and pitfalls along the way. But the right Love Coach won’t let you give up on your dream and give up on your soulmate! The right coach will know how to keep you encouraged, will call you on your “stuff” when necessary and will guide you when you’re just not sure what to do.
The Right YOU
Did you know that Soulmate Love is your birthright- but not necessarily your destiny?
That’s right. You can self-sabotage yourself from finding your true love forever if you don’t un-learn some beliefs and ways of being in relationships.
I remember the day everything turned around for me in my search for my soulmate. My love coach said to me, “You know, Lara- all of these relationships you have complained about? All of those men who were emotionally unavailable, non-committed, and just not Mr. Right that you’ve dated? Well, I hate to break this to you, but- YOU are the common denominator in all of these relationships.Something in you needs to change in order to be the attractor for your Soulmate and for a healthy relationship.”
WOW! What she said really pushed my buttons and made me angry, but I knew she was right.
The same applies to you, my dear. The common denominator in all of your relationships with the wrong men? YOU.
Now, you may be asking, “so what do I do to be the right me?!?”
First, I’m going to have you do something. Yes, right here and right now. Just doing this one simple (but not necessarily easy) step can start to help you DRAMATICALLY SHIFT and EMPOWER you to step out of any role of victim you may have unconsciously been in, and to start to claim your birthright of soulmate love!
Can you handle it? Are you ready?
Say this out loud:
I take 100% responsibility for attracting the men and the types of relationships I have attracted in the past.
Say it again, louder.
And one more time- this time I dare you to SHOUT it out loud with lots of feeling! Yes, stand up and claim your power.
If you did this step, congratulations on taking a major first step in being a powerful attractor for soulmate love.
If you DIDN’T do the step above, I ask you this: why? Are you too embarrassed- does it seem silly or ridiculous?
Here’s the thing: until you can take 100% responsibility for attracting the men and the types of relationships that you had in the past- you will never fully step into your power and be able to be free of the past. You will always be a victim of it. And please keep in mind that your taking responsibility- NOT BLAME. Two different things.
You don’t have to agree with me or even feel like the statement is 100% correct. You just have to be willing to say it out loud. There’s something inside of you that energetically shifts when you do this and starts to make you into an attractor for something better in your life.
If you really want to shift things, write the statement down on a sticky note and put it on your bathroom mirror and say it out loud several times a day.
There is more- much more- to do to be the “right you”. You see, if you keep doing the same things and being the same person- you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got in love! Something has to change. I’ll talk more to you below about what you can do NOW to start changing the course of your love life- immediately!
Shift the Direction of Your Love Life!