The Shocking Truth, Putting Your Soulmate to Sleep and Internet Dating Statistics

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The Shocking Truth Behind Soulmate Love + Other Miracles

When I say shocking, I mean shocking. It’s a shock that most people say they already know but fail to embrace. Just like most people SAY they don’t watch much TV, or don’t text/talk and drive, and well…someone is watching all that TV, and someone is (sadly) making DWT stats shoot through the roof. Someone…someplace…but not you, not me, oh no, not us…

The shocking truth is that soulmate love happens because of…failure.

Yes, the shocking truth behind soulmate love and every other miracle is failure. Massive, painful, heartbreaking, hurtful, embarrassing, and hopeless failure.

But are we failures? Oh no, not us, not you, not me, someone someplace, but not us…oh no. Failure isn’t the whole experience, but it’s a part of it, a big part of it, but most people lose their taste for failure early on in life, so they avoid it at all costs. The one sure fire way to not fail is to not try. And there-in lays the shocking truth. I’m with my soulmate right now, this summer we are celebrating 10 years of blissful love because I failed in love. I suffered heartbreak, I was a mess, I hurt, I hurt others, I embarrassed myself, I felt hopeless, looked hopeless, felt stupid, asked for help, messed up again anyway, again and again, and kept on…trying… learning, growing, and never gave up.

Most people are not trying to find love, they are trying not to fail. Trying not to look stupid, not to embarrass themselves, not to get hurt again, trying not to look like they are trying…so they can never ever look like they are failing.

Any miracle I have ever experienced - and I count much of life in addition to my life itself as a miracle – is the result of massive failure. I’ve failed repeatedly and embarrassingly with money, so I now enjoy abundance most only dream of. I’m healthy and vibrant at age 45, feeling stronger and more vibrant every day and increasing my energy and vitality because I’ve experienced and had very close to me painful and heartbreaking health failure. I feel blessed by, guided and protected by, and closer to God/Spirit/The Universe because I cursed and smashed against the idea of anything beyond myself and outside of myself…only when my smarts failed to bring me true inner happiness did I allow the Universe to guide and help me.

In other words – failure has led me to love, abundance, health, joy, and inner peace.

Want a miracle in your life? Be willing to fail. Massively. Be willing to ask for help, get it, and fail again, maybe even repeatedly, but whatever you do…don’t strop trying, don’t stop believing (maybe that should be a song), and don’t give up on love, or on yourself.

So maybe you’re a failure just like me, or maybe you haven’t allowed yourself to fail enough, but we all deserve to fail a lot more, look a lot more foolish, and learn the same lessons a few dozen times ’till we really get it…why?  So we can LIVE a lot more and experience the miracles that life has in store. You deserve that too!

©2010. Life Launch Training, Inc.

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Are YOU Putting Your Soulmate to Sleep?

Many people seek to find true love by looking for compatibility, matching life experience, shared interests, and warm fuzzy feelings. Sounds pretty good so far, right? I mean…who could be against that?

Well, I’m not against that, but there is a trap in focusing on compatibility, comfort, and convenience – it’s BORING! Not just boring, but it lacks the emotional juice to not only attract your sizzling-hot soulmate, but keep him/her connected to you emotionally, and in every other way that you desire that connection to continue.

So let’s talk about desire. Desire, when stirred up from within is exciting, desire when coming from a strong place is magnetic, desire is attractive. Desire for true love (not just another date) can be either attractive when expressed with power and poise or pathetic when expressed with neediness and weakness.

We habitually act in ways that we are used to. Research shows that 80-90% of our daily thoughts, feelings, and actions are simply habitual. What that means is that if you want things in your love life to change it’s got to take you out of your habitual way of thinking, feeling, and acting or else you’ll simply create more of the same.

For example, the big reason why some people do not decide to attend one of our live courses, like the LoveLaunch Weekend, or even try one of our Home Learning Courses, like our LoveLaunch Quickstart Program, is that it is uncomfortable, inconvenient, and just doesn’t feel like something that they would normally do.

So what’s the problem with that? It’s not just that there is life-changing information and experiences to be gained in those courses, which there is, but because the very act of succumbing to comfort and convenience is borne of apathy, resignation, and lack of confidence, power, and belief that you have control over your life and especially your romantic destiny.

Reading yet another book, or Googling more information is very habitual in our information glutted society. Going in a non-habitual direction allows you to shake off apathy, shake off fantasy (Prince Charming will save me!), and just shakes things up within you – all leading to your being in touch with something a bit scary, yes, but exciting and passionate as well. And all that happens within you even before you attend a course or start a program. You have the power to change your habits, even your habitual thoughts and feelings, but it’ll feel different – which is a good thing.

Seeking and staying in the rut of comfort, convenience, and compatibility is boring, and simply does not stir up the passion that is so attractive to your soulmate and actually magnetizes him/her to you.

Tapping into something different, tapping into passion is powerful, helps you feel that sizzle, and puts you in the habit of feeling feelings that not only will attract your soulmate to you, but will keep him/her around and happy for life.

By the way, busy does not = passion. Most people are busy with stuff they’d rather not even be doing anyway, so that’s not passion, that’s just frazzled and overwhelmed, and that’s a whole other article entirely.

If you have found your relationships fizzle out, if you feel your life as frazzling, overwhelming, or fizzling out, or your passion for life is seeping away as another month and year goes by without respectful, compassionate, and sizzling hot soulmate love …it may be time to get out of comfortable and look to put the passion back into your life.

Yesterday is a memory, tomorrow is a fantasy, all we have is today. Seize the power of today, do something TODAY that inspires passion and feel yourself sizzle…your soulmate (whether he/she has shown up in physical form yet or not) will feel your sizzle and be attracted to you coming alive.

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Internet dating? Is It Really For You?

It’s a crazy dating world out there. It can often be so slow to meet someone online that many have turned to the Internet as a quick fix to their love lives. Online dating statistics show there are roughly 97 million Americans 45 years or older and almost 40% of them are single.

It has been found from the survey that 26 percent internet users in the US visited personal websites in December 2003. This information is brought from web measurement firm COM score media matrix.

Online dating statistics shows that email/chat dating can be more interactive than normal dating, this is one of the most important findings from online dating statistics. It also shows that women are most likely to find potential lover online. Around 72% women polled admitted that they had an online romance. Online dating statistics also reveals that around 52% single men are considering the internet as an option for romance. Studies show that roughly 33% of online connectors were able to convert online relationships to a date.

The total revenue of online dating service industry is 304 million dollars according to Knight Ridder. It has been found from online dating statistics that around 83 millions Americans aged 19 to 45 are interested in online dating services. Single women are most likely to visit online dating services in their thirties and forties this interesting information has been found from online dating statistics.

The Online dating statistics reveal that 40 percent of online dating service users are married and only two to three percent of internet users have made long lasting friendships.

In 2002, consumers spent nearly 302 millions dollars for online dating services. This information is brought to you by online publishers association. This amount is three times more than the previous year (2001). During that period online dating services were increasing at 154 percent every year. This growth rate is significant and it shows that the total revenue of online dating services was 49 million dollars in 2001 as compare to 125 millions dollars in 2002.

In august 2003, 40 millions Americans visited online dating sites according to US report and world report. Statistics also reveals that more than half of the adults polled had used online dating sites. The general assumption from these studies is that most people merely pretend to have found a soulmate or partner through the internet when in reality nothing could be closer to the truth.

If all this sounds scary to you then consider a program that lets you find the love of your life without the gamble.
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